Random Thoughts No. 33- "Nancy Pelosi, Go #%@& Yourself"
Friday, September 18, 2009 at 11:38am
This woman never ceases to amaze me. Yesterday, she issued a "moving and emotional" statement, complete with fake tears that rival Hilary Clinton's, whereby she was afraid that the rhetoric from the right would ultimately lead to violence. She likened the violence that she fears to the shooting of Harvey Milk back in her early San Francisco days. What a sweetheart! Suddenly, if the conservative right disagrees with her, or her leftist brethren, this is comparably to, and wil undoubtedly lead to, political assassination. Brilliant! Let me remind you, this is the woman that claimed several weeks ago that the CIA was a department filled with liars. She claimed to never have been briefed as to the interrogation techniques being used in Gitmo and other places, despite twenty witnesses to the contrary, including members of HER OWN STAFF. To this day, she has not apologized nor has she explained herself. This is the woman whose party called the previous President a "Nazi", "a fool", a "disaster", a "liar", a"babykiller", and who asked "where Lee Harvey Oswald was when they needed him?" This is the same group that has secretly AND openly blamed 9/11 and other attacks around the world on his policies and positions. NOW, this idiot believes the right should be quiet for fear of any discourse leading to political violence??? Screw YOU Nancy Pelosi. Besides the fact that we wouldn't waste the $0.42 for the bullet that would take YOU or any of your cronies out, we'd rather beat you down in the polls and the elections, as our democracy was set up to do. Enjoy your few years, because you'll be out before you accidently let one of grey hairs show. You are a disgusting human being, and not only shouldn't be Speaker (because you SPEAK for NO ONE), you shouldn't even be in Government; jail is the place you should be. Shacking right up with your other criminal pal, Harry Reid. BTW, the latest brainstorm from this piece of crap came today, when asked about funding ACORN (proof positive that all of these liberal clowns are crooks). She was all for it- not having ANY IDEA that both Houses had overwhelmingly voted to cut off funding. Not only is she governing on her own, she has NO idea what the hell is going on.
God, I ask you- Please watch over us and protect and save this country from these imbeciles. Thank you!
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Saturday, August 15, 2009

Several years ago, I became a friend of Laurence Tureaud- an actor, spokesman, Christian and Patriot. Over the past several months, I've had the opportunity to see "Larry" on a more regular basis (he hates when I call him that, since he's legally changed his name to Mr. T. That's "Mr" as a first name, "period" as a middle name, and "T" as a last name!). Now, I have worked with some of the most famous celebrities in the world over the past ten years or so, and I can honestly say that T is the nicest, most genuine and friendly of all of them. I also know of several friends who would agree with me in that assessment.Most of us remember T during the blockbuster television show "The A-Team". We remember him as Clubber Lange in "Rocky III". We remember his children's cartoon and his many television appearances. We know T with the Mohawk, with the chains around his neck, the bulging muscles and the huge laugh and smile.
What many people don't know (because he will not talk about this side of his life) is that Mr. T has visited the American troops in Afghanistan and Iraq many times. He has volunteered hours upon hours of his time to the children at Children's Hospital in Los Angeles and St. Jude's Hospital for Children in Memphis. He spends many days down at various homeless shelters, helping to feed the homeless and spread his word. He is the most upbeat, positive person I've ever known. He understands that he is highly recognizable and doesn't shy from that. When he immediately notices that someone recognizes him, but is too shy to approach, he will go out of his way to introduce himself to them. He will ask a passersby to snap a picture of he and his new friend as if he's posing with them like THEY are the celebrity. I know this as a fact- I've seen it first hand, many, many times.
I've been fortunate to introduce T to many of MY friends at work, and each one has come away smiling and sharing the story of their meeting. He genuinely gets inside your heart and brightens your day- it's uncanny!Now, is Mr. T the most famous actor in the world? No, of course not. However, even though it's been ten years since his last television appearance and 25 years since the series, he is still as recognizable as Coke, Elvis and Mickey Mouse.Many lesser-known actors and actresses have ignored their public and have hidden from their fans behind large sunglasses, hats and wigs. I just wanted to publicly acknowledge T for his friendship, his patriotism to our country and support of our troops, and for personally brightening up even the toughest of days at work just by stopping by and bringing a smile to my friend's faces.
He's a special man.
Saturday, August 8, 2009
Random Thoughts #30- "The Copper and The Rapper"

I saw him from a distance, emerging from the parking garage and walking towards the building. Oh, lookie here! Another hip rapper- complete with the crooked fitted baseball cap and colorful retro jersey, three sizes too large. Even the jeans were way too big, but that's that hip-hop rapper style nowadays. Not wanting to be such an "old fogey", I greeted the kid as I speak to everyone entering the facility. Surprising, he greeted me back, even with a slight smile. I watched as our guest entered the elevator, calling the 21st floor as his final destination. Now, this is interesting. Most of the guests who go to 21 are actors, comedians, singers, band members, and other artists. This guy must be "somebody", but whom?Our guest returned to the lobby from the business management offices, and walked straight into the bank. It was clearly evident to me that he had received a check and was in the process of cashing it. I was determined to find out who this person was. I've seen- and met- most of the other "talent" that often comes to the building; Macy, Cedric, Snoop, Xhibit, the list goes on and on. If I don't meet them, I at least know who they are (I didn't bother Diane Keaton as she was on the cell phone), but this individual was perplexing me. I don't expect to know any rappers or hip-hop artist these days. Quite frankly, I couldn't tell Chris Brown from Charley Brown. The kid emerged from the bank and was preparing to leave, when I stopped him briefly. I stated that I thought he may be someone famous, but I couldn't put a name to the face. This was a pretty bold and forward question for me, as I usually respect the performer’s personal time and privacy. This time, however, the curiosity got the best of me. Very politely, the kid stopped and spoke with me. He asked "Have you ever heard of Eazy E?" Well, believe it or not, this white, middle aged old fogey DID hear of E and actually knew a bit about him. Easy E was the founder of NWA, a rap group with Dre and Ice Cube, and is generally credited with establishing what was later known as "gangsta rap". I also knew E had passed away, presumably from AIDS, back in the mid-90's. I told him that I was familiar with Eazy-E and knew a bit about the band- even though this NOT my world of music by any stretch. The kid continued on-" Well I'm his son". My immediate reaction was to express my sympathies for the loss of his Dad- such a public loss- and despite the years that have passed, you still feel that loss. I then extended my hand and introduced myself, asking what he calls himself. He replied "They call me Lil' Eazy E, in honor of my Dad." Not wanting to keep him any longer, I told him it was a pleasure to have met him, and I hoped to see him again. This was the beginning of a unique friendship.When I returned home, I researched Lil E (as I know call him) and discovered several web sites dedicated to him and his group of associates. There was no question that, while he was not a well-known rapper at this time, he was bound for greatness in the business. His "close friends" included Sean Combs, Dr. Dre, Jay-Z and Snoop- a virtual Mount Rushmore of rap talent and money. He had many photos posted, in various poses- with scantily clad rap hoes, AK47's, lifting weights and sporting prison muscles. In most of these photos, if you look closely, you will see a softness in his E's eyes. This softness is only outdone by the smallness of his voice. I realized then, at least in this case, the image of the violent gangsta rapper was just a marketing tool and not an actual representation of the person I met, albeit briefly. Lil E came to visit me several times over the next few months (okay, he actually had business in the building, but he always stopped to talk with me). On his next visit, I proved once and for all how WHITE and out of touch I am. E and I shook hands- the regular, standard executive handshake, which then evolved to the thumb grip handshake of the 70's which then slid in the first-knuckle finger grip like two wrist wrestlers. These handgrips go on as the two parties get close for a "chest bump" and "back slap" as the grip slips out and into a quick finger snap. Well, someone forgot to tell this old guy, and not only did I miss the chest bump, but left my friend hanging with the finger snap! He finished it on his own, realizing that I was too white to "get it". I immediately realized what I had done, or had NOT done, and felt embarrassed that I may have insulted my new-found friend. The smile never left "E's" face. Lil E has given me an autograph for my daughter, who actually knew about his Dad as well, and has stopped to pose for, photos with total strangers many times. One time, in mid-conversation, E was practically dragged out of the building by a group of fans and some photographers begging that he pose for pictures. As he was being bull-rushed out, he looked back to me, apologetically, for not being able to continue our visit. Again, those eyes that can only be described as "puppy-dog eyes" (When my daughter Mary saw photos of Lil E, she immediately commented on his "beautiful, soulful eyes", so it’s not only me).This friendship has developed over the months. He now calls me his "greatest agent". When I know he's on his way, I let some other people know and ask if the want to met a future superstar. Lil E' is destined to be this star- whether it be as a gangsta rapper, a hip-hop artist or as a music producer. He has the talent, the family lineage, the name recognition and the best connections in the business. More importantly, he is one of the nicest celebrities- no, make that PEOPLE- I have ever met. Who would’ve thought a friendship would, or even could, develop between two people so separated by a generation, by race, by surroundings and by musical influences. This separation was recognizable and tangible to both of us, yet we equally put aside the differences and looked into each other's soul. I told E today that I would be moving on, and that I valued our friendship and was honored to have met him. I thanked him for all the joy that he brought to me and my daughter, and I assured him that he would be a huge star. I promised him that I would stay in touch through his web site, and would following his career. He was honestly touched by what I had said, and appeared saddened by the fact that I was leaving. He said simply "You are a really nice man." We hugged and said good-bye, without any uncomfortable handshake variations to further embarrass him. Then and there, as I watched him drive off in his white $100K Mercedes, I vowed that I would write this piece documenting our friendship and showing how wonderful it can be to look past obvious differences in appearances or preferences or even lifestyles. Sometimes, you strike gold- friendship gold. I made another vow as I watch him drive out of sight. I vowed that I, too, would chase my dream and do what I believed my Higher Power put me on this Earth to do.
I will be a gangsta rapper. Say hello to "Notorious F-A-T".
To learn more about Lil E', go to www.lileazy-e.net and www.eazy-ecpt.com
Monday, August 3, 2009
Random Thoughts- "Meeting Herb..."
The other day, an elderly man made his way slowly into our building on Ventura Blvd. As he carefully negotiated the slate staircase from the patio down into the lobby, I took a moment to meet him at the stairs. So as not to embarass him, I simply greeted him by commenting on the gorgeous California weather, yet I was prepared to assist him if he stumbled. Actually, he was quite nimble on his feet, although he did use a walking cane. He greeted me back and seemed to be in quite the chipper mood. We walked slowly through the lobby, stopping every few feet as he turned to face me. He introduced himslef as "Herb" and he was in the building to meet with his broker. He had just celebrated his 92nd birthday, which belied his 75-yr.old appearance. Clear-eyed and sharp-minded, Herb began telling me a shorter version of his life-to-date story. He spoke fondly of growing up in Bronx, New York, after his family immigrated from overseas. He joked about voting for FDR, against his parent's wishes, whe he was old enough to cast his first ballot. He taught me a bit of history when he told me about a ship of Jews escaping Europe during the very beginning of what was to become WWII that was prevented from docking in a NY port by FDR (leading to the anger from his parents). Herb reminisced about migrating across the US to California, buying his first house in Hollywood for $4500, working various jobs including shipbuilding in San Pedro, Naval administration work, and even working in some of the Hollywood studios. I felt myself in his mind's eye, looking out as one would look out through a windshield, following his every step. California in 1940- wow! Then to stay and watch it grow from orange and avocado groves to the concrete jungle it has become. Simply amazing. Clearly, Herb had had a rich life and nowadays enjoys the simple things such as his upcoming dinner with his daughter and her family.Today I came across this article commenting on the fact that with our parents living longer, more and more of us are taking care of them at home. The article encouraged us to listen and learn from this generation before they disappear. These were the top 5 "life lessons" shared among this group of octogenerians and above: 1) The simple things matter most.2) Humor and time cure most pains.3) There's more satisfaction in giving than getting. Service to others is the most satisfying activity.4) Choose your spouse carefully. It will be your most important decision.5) Work hard and in a field or role that you enjoy.I know Herb lives by these five rules. It was obvious as we spoke. I know for a fact he enjoys the simple things, because he shared this bit of good news with me: still driving at his advanced age, Herb had just received his new driver's license- renewed for another 5 years! Herb declared "The State just made it official. Looks like I've got another 5 to go!"Meeting Herb was a half hour of time that I will never forget. I only hope I see him again during the next five years...
Sunday, July 26, 2009
"Memories Are Made Of These..."
As I ran errands this morning, I popped in an ol' cd favorite of mine. The Greatest Hit(s) of sorts from a '70's band named Orleans. Many of you perhaps have never heard of them, but they had two monster hits- 'Dance With Me" and "Still The One". While I tend to listen to this cd often enough, today a flood of memories overwhelmed me as I was driving- all inspired by these songs.I remembered that my father and I were at Sam Goody's (remember them?) at the Woodbridge Mall shopping together, which we didn't do all that often (I almost remember each time we ever did go!). When we walked into the record store, my father-who was a working musician for 40 years- would often search for "fake books" and music sheets, while I would flip through the latest "33 LP's" and the new fad- 8 track tapes. All the while, an album was playing over the loudspeaker system in the store. At one point, Dad came up to me and asked me if I knew who was singing, and I didn't. Together, we walked to the counter and inquired there, and we were given the latest Orleans album called "Wakin' and Dreaming". He bought the album, and I immediately began playing it on my phonograph stereo system. I don't think he ever heard it after I got a hold of it.That one album, purchased in the mid-70's, sort of became the soundtrack of my life for the next 20 years or so. Listening to "If I Don't Have You" while kissing Karen Episcopia in her basement- until we were caught by her Dad...listening to the crisp harmonies of the back-up singer, Linda Ronstadt. I learned the art of singing harmonies almost entirely through this one cut- as well as The Righteous Brothers and the Beatles...Singing "Golden State Of Mind" upon driving into California for the first time- "California, you're a beauty...an apparition to me now...Palm trees silhouetted against the sunset sky, air so rich and tender it almost makes me cry-y-y-y..."Humming "Spring Fever" every first day of spring, and everytime someone claims to HAVE spring fever- "I got Spring Fever..they say that it go to your head...Spring Fever...I get dizzy just lying in bed..."Dancing to 'Reach", which made the charts (peaking at about #27), and enjoying this new rock and bluegrass and church choir-type sound. Unique- haven't heard anything like it since...Hearing "Still The One" for the first time and knowing- actually KNOWING, at 16 years of age, that this song was destined to be a hit on the then-AM rock stations. I knew this, even though I didn't particularly like the song! I thought- that's cool- people will by the album and make hits out of these other songs. It didn't happen. Orleans eventually faded away. John and Johanna Hall are still married, I think, and John was in local politics in Upstate New York, last I heard, and is now an elected U.S. Representative (D-NY) Larry and Lance Hoppen went on to play with other less successful bands, and recently started another "Orleans" without John Hall. Wells Kelly- the hilarious, fun-loving party monster of a drummer, died suddenly while on tour with Meat Loaf, so they have had many drummers since. This band was Journey- lite, but for some reason, theirs tunes resonanted to me on a very deep level. No- they weren't the Stones, or Zeppelin or Bruce Springsteen. They were just Orleans. I've tried many times over the years to get others hooked on the sound by sharing the tapes and cd's I made of their music. I always thought that if I fronted a band, I wanted it to be similar sounding, as no one else sounded like them, not really. That's the story of Orleans and how it was born in a record store in Woodbridge, and travelled to New York, Georgia, Arizona and California. They are now on my Zune and I will listened to them this morning while floating in the pool, still wishing I was in a band...I'm interested in any other similar stories you friends may have of how a record or album affected YOUR life., and the fond or distinctive memories you have when listening to them. Please add you story in the comments, if you have one!
Despite Herself, This "Wise Latina" Will Prevail!
I have been watching this joke of a confirmation hearing, headed by that lying m-f'er (Cheney's words, mind you) Pat Leahy, on Judge Sotomayor's nomination for the Supreme Court vacancy and I am amazed at the amount of contradictions, double-standards and revisionist history in place. I'm not sure why ANYTHING surprises me anymore when it comes to Capital Hill- just a dreamer, I guess- but this nomination truly takes the cake. In general, I feel that when one party wins an election and has the majority, they they also win the right to make these selections and the "loser" basically has little say. In this case, however, it seems like it's just WRONG! To begin with, Sotomayor's biggest case decision has been appealed and reversed (the Connecticut Fireman discrimination case) by the same Supreme Court she hopes to join. To sum up her decision on that case, she basically stated that the fireman's test was illegal because no person of color scored high enough to get the promotion (11 out of 30 passed the test). It might have helped if the other 19 STUDIED!. Shouldn't the mere FACT that one her cases was reversed by the Supreme Court automatically exclude her from consideration? Had this been a more conservative-leaning jurist, I'd make the exact same comment; yet, the Liberals I'm sure would switch their argument to fit their ultimate goals. Next, her Honor stated- not once, but many, many times- that she was a "wise latina" and being a "wise latina woman" gave her distinct advantages to making LAW over the older white men of the past (paraphrased, but the sentiment is there). Now, stop for a second and IMAGINE, if you will, what would have happened if the roles were reversed. Imagine if a WHITE male made a similar comment, stating that being white made them more qualified to MAKE LAW, over those credentials of non-whites, or "wise latina" women. First of all, judges are supposed to INTERPRET law, not MAKE law. Secondly, her comment is SO racist on it's face value, how can this possibly be overlooked? I'll tell you how. She's liberal- a card-carrying member of the A.C.L.U., that's how. To think that many of these same members sat in judgment of Clarence Thomas- a brilliant jurist of color nominated by a Republican President- and for all practical purposes, ruined his career even if he was eventually confirmed. I'm just tired of racism being only a one-way street in this country. We all realize that our history of treatment of people of color is shameful, at best. It was a long, painful road, but we've improved tremendously in this area. We're still not perfect, but it doesn't mean that it should be acceptable to condone reverse discriminations to "even the score". That's ridiculous. This judge does exactly that, and the stats prove it. I am also tired of one party being in power over the other, and being accepting of bad behavior and lying, then making speeches that "apologize" for their actions. This goes for BOTH parties. I mean, seriously- how can the right claim family values a s a serious platform when they themselves are screwing everything that moves? I despise hypocrisy above all other things, and both of these parties are full of hypocrites. So, make room for Judge Wise Latina, another historical step in the right direction -just the wrong person making it!
When Did We Become So Entitled?
I went to the bank today and what I experienced was shocking, but not new. A woman paraded into the bank with a small dog in tow. The bank was as quiet as a library as several transactions were taking place and the tellers were speaking to the customers in low voices. The music was soothing, and for a Saturday morning it was quite relaxing. All of sudden- out of nowhere- a large dog bounded out from beneath a check writing station and barked an unbelievably loud and shrill bark, aiming his annoyance at the small dog. This not only broke up the semi-silence, but scared the living daylights of every customer and teller in the bank, including yours truly. After several minutes, most of our blood pressures levelled off again, and I wondered aloud when did it become socially acceptable to bring animals into businesses? You can bring pets into vet offices, obviously, but when did it become ok to bring them into banks, cleaners, post offices, etc? I am well aware of the A.D.A laws, and we are NOT talking about retrievers or shepherds who assist the bilnd and physically challenged. We are talking about PETS. I confront people each and every day who feel they are above the social mores and laws and bring their pets into my work place. Just yesterday, a young lady tried to explain to me that her yorkie was a "service dog" that she didn't normally bring with her into the bank, but it was too hot to leave her in the car ( a car, by the way, parked in an underground parking garage out of direct sunlight). Why are you bringing a dog out into the heat to begin with? After leaving the bank, I visited STAPLES and literally ran into a guy who had a pit bull on a leash in the store. I couldn't believe it, considering how close I came to the dog after bumping into the owner. The dog doesn't know this but I've shot a few pit bulls in my day, and would do it again in a second. These are nasty vicious animals bred and raised to fight and kill. Had the dog interpreted my run-in as an "assault" on his owner, whose to say he would've attacked me at that point? For sure, I'd rename the chain "Scala's Stationary Supplies" and the Lakers would be winning championships at" THE SCALADOME" because I'd own STAPLES! So, I ask you, when did we become so entitled that we can do whatever we want to, damn everyone else. I ask you- would you allow a friend to visit in your house with their Alaskan Husky on a leash, uninvited and unexpected? Where does it stop? I have friends who own iguanas as pets, or burmese pythons. How about a horse? Horses have been labelled as "service animals" as well- can I bring one into a bank? I would LOVE to see someone challenge this sometime. If they kicked the horse and horseowner out of the bank, it would amount to animal discrimination, wouldn't it? Hell, we're recognizing gay penguins these days, might as well take up for and support the discriminated Black Bear or the blind bat!I'm as animal friendly as many of you reading this essay, so don't even go there. I just do not feel that it is polite, correct or socially acceptable to bring things that I like and that please ME into the world that includes people other than myself. This is the ultimate definition of selfishness. We have individual rights, but the rights of the people outweigh the individual rights almost always. I say it is about time people leave their PETS at home. The people I know with dogs never even walk them or visit with them. They leave them outside to bark throughout the day and night. Most of those with pets shouldn't even HAVE pets. If it were left up to me, I would keep the dogs and pets and do away with the owners. Most of THOSE people just suck...
The Death of an Icon; The Birth of a Legend
A musical genius passed away suddenly at an age too young to be associated with his passing. Cardiac arrythmia will be the proven culprit, brought upon by malfeasance on the part of a doctor. The departed surrounded by hanger's on who have milked the performer for every dime he's ever had by continuing to provide whatever pleasures and habits he developed over the past 30 or so years. This entourage of greed had no concern for the well-being of the artist, but only fattening their own wallets. If they were ever to confront the artist to tell them the drugs, the late nights and the impulsive spending was bad for him, they would risk being cut off from the money. Instead, they sought out a doctor who traded his Hippocratic Oath for his hypocritcal oath and continuously furnished the artist with any drug he felt he needed, despite the obvious consequences taken on his physical toll as well as the very real threat of addiction. Friends, fans and peers around the world react to the news with profound saddness, questions and speculations. Rumors surface almost immediately, while informal shrines are established at his many homes, the sites of his famous concerts, and places with no direct association to the artist just the same. Statements are issued from every celebrity who was known to the artist, ex-wives and girlfriends, directors, actors, singers and even politicians. Television and radio immediately kick in with lifetime retrospections detailing and discussing the worlwide impact this life had on the planet. Greatest ever? Once in a lifetime? Most influential? This obituary of sorts is not unique, despite what you may believe. In fact, what I described above was the exact type of worldwide reaction we had 32 years ago with the passing of Elvis Presley. I would bet, with some changes based on the era, it was the same obit and tribute written on behalf of Ludwig Van Bethoven at his death, Cole Porter at his passing and Billie Holiday at her passing.Like all of you, I was shocked at MJ's death. I've been a fan of his music since the day's of "ABC" and "Ben". I grew up witth Michael and his family. I wathced him on The Mike Douglas Show and Ed Sullivan. I watched the cartoons. I bought "Off The Wall" album, considered by many as one of the greatest disco albums of all time. "She's Out Of My Life" still gets to me. I watched the "USA For Africa- We Are The World" music video a thousand times, never getting tired of it (back when VH1 and MTV WERE music video stations). I played his boxed set cd "Greatest Hits" numerous times, never being embarassed by playing it. I recognized his genius and I was proud to relish in it.I thought he was strange as many of you did as well. I allowed him that eccentricity, however. Many of the most talented among us are freaks too. I was also one of the very few who felt MJ was innocent of those horrible accusations against him. I happened to be at the court records department doing a search when the first case was filed. I convinced the clerk to burn me a copy of the filing, as she copied one for herself. It was quite sordid and unbelievably graphic, but I still didn't believe him capable of it. I always thought he was just a guy so innocent that he didn't care how certain things made him look to others- others with hate and harm in their heart. I also thought it was obvious that the family suing was only in it for the money, not legal remedy.I knew the trial(s) would take it's toll on him physically, and I actually predicted that he wouldn't survive the trial, but I was wrong. I think we'll find that the work of someone he most trusted will be the major reason for his death. A doctor with whom he trusted his very life, and a doctor who sold him out for cash. "With friends like these"...
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Missing "Lil Russ"...
It was a year ago this weekend that the great Tim Russert passed away, suffering a major heart attack while preparing for his Sunday “Meet the Press” political talk show. As a fan of the show, and a major fan of Tim’s, I was shocked to learn later that evening (the announcement was delayed until NBC was sure all family members were notified) that we lost him. Tim was a wonderful moderator and possessed and brilliant political mind, which I admired. I often quoted Tim’s quotes on a politician’s statement rather than the politician himself. The reason was simple- I find it very difficult to trust anything a politician says, but found Tim to be thoroughly honest and real. This was one of the many charms of Tim- his “realness”. He didn’t go Ivy League; he worked his way through a regular Liberal Arts school. He took jobs based on principals rather than pay. Even though he traveled the world, he never really left Buffalo, New York. Although he dined with Kings and Queens, Presidents and Popes, he continued to honor his father, the sanitation engineer, and all of “Big Russ’s” veteran friends from the local V.F.W. saloon.I often thought about Tim during this past year- not only because I missed his brilliance and his professionalism and how he made watching political debate that much more interesting. I often thought of how he might respond to the recent actions of his station- NBC and MSNBC- and how embarrassed and ashamed he would no doubt feel when hearing how they are operating. Since his death, NBC has gravitated left by leaps and bounds, and making a mockery of the neutral Fourth Estate. Not only has this broadcast company become a shill for the Obama Presidency (“Our job is not to question the President, but to support him and help him succeed”), but owner General Electric CEO has openly admitted to continuing to trade with terrorist sponsored countries (Iran, Syria) despite the government’s requests to stop. Tim would now doubt cower at the personal attacks and false accusations hurled at certain people- politicians and non-politicians alike- simply because they don’t happen to agree with the positions held by their company. While close friends, I cannot believe that Tim Russert had any respect for Keith Olberman as a NEWS anchor. Olberman has every right to have his own political views- and voicing them on his show- IF he was considered a commentator or analyst, but NOT as a news anchor. While Tim was clearly a Democrat, and pretty liberal by some standards, he was a realist as well. He knew Democrats made mistakes and recognized that Republicans had good ideas and were just as “patriotic and American” as their Democratic counterparts. He said so on many occasions. I miss Tim Russert for these, and many other reasons. I think the country misses him for these reasons as well. Keeping it real and honest was what Tim was all about and it is something painfully missing in today’s political discussion.
With friends like these...
This is a more difficult note to write, partly because I had written it a few nights ago, and when I went to publish/post it, I lost the whole thing! So after re-energizing myself by taking a cold dip in the pool, I am back to reveal a deep secret and expose myself as the fraud that I am.Over the past year, mnay of my facebook friends, and others, have asked about what I've been doing the past thirty years and such, as we tried to catch up on each other's lives after losing contact post- High School. I've been told I've had a most interesting life as described here as well as Classmates and LinkedIn and other networking sites. I'll admit- I've experienced things that will eventually make great stories and movie plots, but when explaining what I am doing now, I've been somewhat vague, referring instead to the recent past history.You may have noticed that many of my posts and notes have a political slant to them, and it's for a purpose. In addition to just being a political junky, I am also quite concerned of the current economy and the joblessness across the United States. I am quite concerned in the divide of the "haves and the have-nots". The reason is simple: I have been unemployed since October 2008 and was once a "have" who is now a struggling "have not".I've kept this secret from my closest friends, while trying to network with business connections. The reasons are obvious- embarrassment, shame, depression, etc. Who wants to answer the "What happened?" questions a thousand times a day? The fact is, as an executive level Director in HR, a non-revenue generating department, you are always at risk of being cut, especially when the business environment does not consider an effective HR Department as a necessity as much as a luxury. We all know how ludicrous that sounds, but it is true. Additionally, I've had a history of working my way out of jobs by being so efficient and making the overall department appear to be running itself. We also know that this is ludicrous. Eventually, when the Board or the CEO feels that financial cuts are necessary, my departments tend to be an easy target as they feel that someone making one-third of my salary could operate the now maller department and make the same educated decisions. It's only when they end up in court battling labor issues or harrassment complaints where they wish they had someone with my professionalism, training, experience and judgement on their side.Be that as it may, this economy has affected this job search as none before. I have been laid off from two companies in the last three years due to economic decisions. I have received nice severances packages from both companies. I have a history of taking new positions whereby each new position has been for significantly higher salary and more responsibility. I call this "upward mobility". In the past, I have had choices between several offers and chose positions I thought were more challenging, close to home and in industries that interested me. I also chose positions based on the connections I felt with the current teams. This job search has been quite different. I have had less than five cursory interviews in seven months. When I was told that I was being considered for a position, I learned that I was up against candidates with PHD's, MBA's and coming from global organizations. I reduced my "desired" salary by half, hoping to get a foot in the door, and still could not generate much interest. As a result, I am looking backward and looking to return to industries that I worked in 15-20 years earlier, at wages more fitting to the 1988 economy. All of this came at the heels of my daughter turning eighteen, getting a driver's license, experiencing the Senior Prom, graduating high school and applying to college. Needless to say, I have been unable to properly help celebrate these accomplishments as my financial decisions were more to the effect of "Do I eat today or get gas for the car?" "Do I make the car payment or the phone/Internet and continue the job search?" My financial struggles have caused me to sell off 90% of my property and possessions, and I have plans to leave CA. I've had to break this information to my daughter, and as a result, it was a real crying fest. We have never been apart in 18 years, and I believe it is harder for me than it is for her.These dilemmas have resulted in physical issues as well. Sitting at the computer for 20 hours a day job searching and networking has resulted in weight gain, depression and serious circulation issues. These DVT's and such have brought up the possibility of strokes or even amputations, and have been extremely painful. I wanted to publish this note not to generate concern or sympathy, or even to reach out for help. I wanted to publicly acknowledge a few people who became aware of my situation and stepped up to help in their own way. I cannot think of any other effective way to thank them, so I am trying this.First, my daughter Mary. She had hopes of attending Cal-State Santa Barbara and we had even arranged for off-campus housing for the year. Due to my employment circumstances, which happened after her mother had lost her jobs months earlier, she called me and stated that she was going to stay home and go to a local college until we got on our feet again. This was incredibly mature of her, as anything else would have resulted in a huge guilt trip for me. I love my angel.Secondly, Tony P. He has been a friend for several years and during this time period, has been a source of some financial help, but mostly emotional support. Together, we have created several screenplay treatments and share a common goal regarding getting published. By taking his time and meeting with me, listening to my moaning and such, he has helped me tremendously emotionally.Thirdly, my other angel "Shoe". She has been the source of tremendous support- financially, emotionally and spiritually. We often talk for hours on the phone, and she has helped me in ways that defy imagination. She is also one of my biggest "fans", as she enthusiatically supports my music as well. What started out as a friendship has developed into something deeper, and I just MAY have to spend my remaining days with her just to try and pay her back for all she's done for me. Even that wouldn't be enough, in all honesty. Here's one thing I know, though. Without Robin, I would be a memory today because I would have been long dead, and that is not hyperbole. So I take this moment to exorcise these demons and share with everyone what really has been happening over the last several months. I have taken a position recently that can lead to a future close to where I was in my recent past. In the meantime, it will be a continued struggle. Getting this position has actually held off my planned move out-of-state and has allowed me to stay at least until Mary's graduation (I've paid for private school for 12 years, I going to see her graduate!). If the new employment doesn't lead to the management position that was promised or assured to me at the time of hire, I will be better prepared to re-locate as Mary begins her life away from her parents. It will be difficult, but not as difficult as the last seven months have been.
Beauty and the Blogger
I'm sure many of you are familiar with what took place in the recent Miss USA contest, where Miss California (Carrie Prejean) was asked her opinion of same sex marriages. This question was asked by infamously gay blogger, Perez Hilton. Miss Prejean responded to the question in an articulate, professional manner, looking into the eyes of the judges, the host and the sudience. She held her head high, shoulders back and did not appear to stumble verbally while answering the question. As a former Chapter Vice President of Toastmasters, Inc., these are the public speaking values that are sought after, and from my uderstanding, these are the charateristics and qualities sought in this portion of the competition. The SUBSTANCE of her answer is not only secondary, it shouldn't be considered AT ALL! This purpose of this portion of the competition is to judge how a contestant might handle themselves in a myriad of interview situations, most of which are "on the fly" questions, where she would be expected to handle clearly and concisely. Now, she has been victimized by the fallout of her response, and this is wrong on so many levels.First of all, this subject is a divisive subject within today's American culture. As a Republican Conservative, I am more in line with the Guiliani view of this subject. I have gay family members. I have many gay friends. I have been divorced. I believe they (gay and lesbians) are entitled to the same unhappiness that heteros enjoy everyday in THEIR marriages. I think it's CRIMINAL that those involved in a committed same-sex relationship do not have the same rights as married couples, such as visitation in ICU, tax breaks and many other issues. I do not subscribe necessarily to EVERYTHING written in the Bible- but I UNDERSTAND those who do. I do not HATE them for this viewpoint. All of the polls suggest that this is a divided issue, but a lsight majority believe what Miss Prejean stated- that she supports recognizing marriage ONLY between a man and a woman. this viewpoint was UPHELD here in California- the most liberal state in the USA, so clearly, she's with the majority. To soften her opinion even more, she apologized in advance to all those who believe differently, even though the audience erupted in applause.This, however, didn't sit well with "Mr." Hilton. Now, I've often read Perez' blogs, and I find it hilarious at times. Sometimes, he is insensitive, to say the least. because Miss Prejean's opinion on same sex marriages differs from his (apparently 180 degress different), he not only saw it fit to give her ZERO points out of a possible 100 points for the Q&A portion of the contest (yeah, I didn't think it affected the final outcome...), but he felt it necessary to go on his video blog and call Miss Prejean "a stupid bitch" and " a stupid (c-word)". Now, that's tolerance, isn't it? In a competition that is largely pomp and circumstance to have been reduced to such degradation is inexcusable. This situation is larger than Perez Hilton or same sex marriage. I thin it can be easily reduced to this common denominator. If you are liberal, and now that you are feeling superior with having a liberal government behind you, you feel that you have the power, the right and the authority to personally attack those who think differently as you. I believe that Conservatives often debate issues using facts, substance and examples/statistics, while Liberals resort to personal hits when they cannot win a debate intellectually. I truly believe this to be the most basic- and major-differences between the two parties and viewpoints. As long as fools like Perez Hilton, jeneanne Garafalo, Al Franken and Sean Penn continue to be the flag carriers for the left, this chasm of difference will only continue to grow.
Peter Heck- Guest Columnist
I was sitting in church waiting for the start of the service, my grandpa came walking towards me pointing his finger. No matter how old I get, and no matter how long he's been out of the U.S. Navy, that's still an intimidating sight. As he approached me, his voice quivered as he said, "We saved that continent twice ... how dare my president apologize for this country's arrogance." My grandpa is right. Americans need not apologize to the world for their arrogance; rather, Americans should apologize to their forefathers for the arrogance of their president.Barack Obama's first foreign trip as President of the United States has confirmed the naiveté so many of us feared during the election cycle. But worse than that, it has also demonstrated that our president suffers from either a complete misunderstanding of our heritage and history, or an utter contempt for it. Neither is excusable. Garnering cheers from the French of all people, President Obama declared, "In America, there is a failure to appreciate Europe's leading role in the world. Instead of celebrating your dynamic union and seeking to partner with you to meet common challenges, there have been times where America has shown arrogance and been dismissive, even derisive." Consider that Obama spoke these words just 500 miles from the beaches of Normandy, where the sand is still stained with 65-year-old blood of "arrogant Americans."Indeed, columnist Mark Whittington observes, "One should remind Mr. Obama and the Europeans how America has 'shown arrogance' by saving Europe from itself innumerable times in the 20th Century. World War I, World War II, the Cold War and the wars in the Balkans were largely resolved by American blood, treasure, and leadership." But all that appears lost on the president's seemingly insatiable quest to mend fences he imagines have been tarnished by the bullish George W. Bush.If Obama wishes to continue trampling the presidential tradition of showing class to former office holders and publicly trash Bush for his own personal gain, so be it. But all Americans should make clear that no man even if he is the president will tarnish the legacy of those Americans who have gone before us. Ours is not a history of arrogance. It is a history of courage, self sacrifice, and honor.When abusive monarchs repressed the masses, Americans resisted and overthrew them. When misguided policies led to the unjust oppression of fellow citizens, Americans rebelled and overturned them. When millions of impoverished and destitute wretches sought a new beginning, Americans threw open the door and welcomed them. When imperial dictators were on the march, Americans surrendered their lives to stop them. When communist thugs threatened world peace, Americans bled to defeat them. When an entire continent was overwhelmed with famine and hunger, Americans gave of themselves to sustain it. When terrorist madmen killed the innocent and subjugated millions, Americans led the fight to topple them.This is the legacy that generations of Americans have left. If President Obama seeks stronger relations with the world community, perhaps he should begin by reminding them of these very truths, rather than condemning his own countrymen on foreign shores.This "obsessive need to put down his own country," has caused blogger James Lewis to call President Obama a "stunningly ignorant man" who has evidently never spoken to a concentration camp survivor, a Cuban refugee, a boat person from Vietnam, a Soviet dissident or a survivor of Mao's purges.Unfortunately, I can no longer bring myself to give Mr. Obama that benefit of the doubt. Not after looking at the pain in my grandpa's eyes ... a man who still carries shrapnel in his body from his service to this country.As a student and teacher of history, I recognize that America has made mistakes ... plenty of them, in fact. But one of the great things about our people has been their courage and humility in admitting and correcting those mistakes. God willing, they will prove that willingness again in four years and correct the mistake that is the presidency of Barack Obama.
Let's Just Fast-Forward, Shall We?
Last week (April 15th), AMERICANS from all over the country got together in certain cities to protest the large amount of taxes being snared by our government. These "tea parties" have been occurring every year on Tax Day since- well possibly since the very first Tea Party! These protests are more symbolic in nature than anything else- I mean who likes taxes?- but they are NOT the protests of one party over another. However, based on the news coverage, one would think that Newt Gingrich and Bill O'Reilly went door-to-door recruiting people to attend these protests. First of all, Newt could no longer organize a tupperware party, but to think this was a Conservative movement as opposed to what it was- an AMERICAN movement- is lunacy. So it should come as no surprise that the failed and out-of-work Air America crowd- Garafalo, Maher, CNN, MSNBC and others of their ilk- made comments denouncing these movements as "rednecks and racists" getting together as encouraged by FOX to protest NOT taxes, but "our first African American President". Furthermore, through these news reports they managed to call these participants "tea baggers" instead of tea party participants (if you do not know what is meant by the phrase "tea bagging", ask your daughters). When did it become socially acceptable to use porn terms on national TV? Trust me, if Howard Stern used that term, he'd be fined another million dollars. The hipocracy and the double-standards of media coverage of our political parties is unbelievable and maddening. Just to enlighten some of you who missed this last week, the tea party movements crossed all political parties, all color lines, all religions, all cities, all social status and included both sexes. It included any and all who shared the opinion that WE pay too many taxes and what is worse- we have NO SAY as to where these taxes go (bail-outs, hand-outs, etc.). The people never really expected to change the government's philosophy on this; they just wanted to be heard. Here in LA, the tea party was organized by two liberal-leaning radio talk show hosts. They love Obama, voted for him, hate Arnold, hated Bush, but feel that our taxes shouldn't be going to AIG or FORD or any bail-outs or company failing in this economy. That's it! No racist statements, no "right wing conspiracy". One pundit put it perfectly when he was asked about Garafalo's comments about "tea baggers protesting Obama, not taxes. They are just rednecks and racists". He stated that Garafalo was "as unintelligent as she is untalented and unattractive. She hasn't had an intelligent thing to say since her last good movie, which according to most movie people was- NEVER!" So, liberals out there- enough! You lose credibility everyday when people like Garafalo, Al "Stuart Smalley" Franken, and Paul Begalo and Harry Reid make statements to represent your points of view. If these viewpoints are accurate and you support comments like calling conservatives "rednecks and racists" because they exercised their First Amendment rights to free speech and protested something they feel very passionate about, then you are CLEARLY out of touch with America and it will cost you in the future.Secondly, the ACLU and other leftists organizations, have years of lawsuits and commentary against Bush for not revealing various "secrets" that he deemed to be National Security (the ACLU HATES this!). Now, with Obama in office, they filed the same writs and lawsuits expecting a different reaction. Imagine the shock when HIS response was the same- National Security. What did these leftists organizations do in response? Did they hold news conferences announcing an Executive cover-up? Did they go on the talk show circuit slamming the Administration as a cover-up artist, lying to the American people? No. They simply said "Ok, thanks! See ya' later"...hipocrites, all...So, let's just fast-forward, shall we? Let's go to 2012, where amidst various investigations (Harry Reid among them) high-level Obama team members resign or are kkicked out in shame, yet Obama gets re-elected, but no longer has the House or Senate to back him, as the Republican make great strides in these areas (Americans are sick and tired of being broke, out of work and treated to nothing but sound byte pablum). I like Obama- he's charming, I love his kids, and I want him to succeed (not necessarily his policies though)...let's also fast forward these NBA play-offs- Lakers take Utah in 5, Portland in 7, and meet Cleveland in the Finals. They beat LeBron in 6...by the way, I'm never wrong...:)
50 more things...
1, what color is your toothbrush?
blue and white
2, Name one person who made you smile today:
Charles Barkley
3, What were you doing at 8 am this morning?
It’s only 7:57…I’ll tell you in a few…
4, What were you doing 45 minutes ago?
That’s quite personal, I think…
5, What is your favorite candy bar?
Anything made by Dove Chocolate
6. Have you ever been to a strip club?
Been? I’ve worked the pole, babe!
7, What is the last thing you said aloud?
”Sorry, Occifer, but I don’t drink and drive…I always wait until I’m stuck at a light.”
8, What is your favorite ice cream flavor?
chocolate
9, What was the last thing you had to drink?
Denny’s Coke- de-licious!
10. ..emails and filling out this stupid list (see question #3)
11, What was the last thing you ate?
Crow
12, Have you bought any new clothing items? recently?
Depends…
13, The last sporting event you watched? professional?
It IS Easter weekend. Tiger IS healthy. Is there ANYTHING else that matters this weekend but The Masters?
14, What is your favorite flavor of popcorn?
I didn’t know they came in flavors. I’ll say popcorn-flavored.
15, Who is the last person you sent a text message to?
I don’t text. I sent my daughter a smoke signal though…
16, Ever go camping?Are you kidding?
I’m a professional outdoorsman (another term for homeless)
17, Do you take vitamins daily?
Suppository only
18, Do you go to church every Sunday?
God and I have an agreement. I won’t bother HIM at work and He won’t bother me…My church is wherever I am at the time when He and I decide to talk things over.
19, Do you have a tan?
I have two fives. Will that help? Ooooh, a TAN….
20,Do you prefer Chinese food over pizza?
I prefer Chinese pizza
21, Do you drink your soda with a straw?
Yes. The restaurants hate it when I suck on the fountain
22, What did your last text message say? Again, I don’t text. What do I have to do to get that through your head? Text you or something???
23, What are you doing tomorrow?
You mean “who”, don’t you?
25, Look to your left, what do you see?
A very skittish squirrel. Obviously he’s not used to being in the shower with me
26, What color is your watch?
Silver
27, What do you think of when you hear Australia?
Cool accents, Greg Norman and toilets that flush in reverse
29, Do you go in at a fast food place or just hit the drive thru?
Hit the drive thru. I have several lawsuits pending for this very reason…
30. What is your favorite number?
13
31, Who's the last person you talked to on the phone?
9-1-1 operator (they never give their name, but I suspect they are somewhere in India)
32, Any plans today?
Let’s see…mop, download some tunage, rearrange my sock drawer, commit suicide…
33, How many states have you lived in?
Let me count…state of confusion, denial, euphoria, rapture…
34, Biggest annoyance right now?
I cannot understand how in an age where we are preaching GREEN, GREEN, GREEN, my grocery store (RALPH’S) discourages paper grocery bags (pushes the plastic) by hardly having any or if they have them, they have no handles. Don’ they know that it takes dozens and dozens of years for each plastic bag to disintegrate in a landfill? Jeez!!!!
35, Last song listened to?
”We Will Go On” by Daniel Rodriguez
36,Can you say the alphabet backwards?
sdrawkcab siht gnitirw m'I
37, Do you have a maid service clean your house?
Right. She comes right after my masseuse and pedicurist…
38, Favorite pair of shoes you wear all the time?
Snow shoes. Don’t ask…
39, Are you jealous of anyone?
Just those who are thin, handsome, wealthy, healthy and smart. Other than that, no. Oh wait…and the guy with the NEW box under the freeway; mine is falling apart.
40, Is anyone jealous of you?
yes- those who wish to be fat, ugly, poor and stupid. I’m sure there are some out there…
41, Do you love anyone?
but of course…”What a friend we have in Jesus…”
42, Do any of your friends have children?
Yes. Many of my friends were children once too.
43, What do you usually do during the day?
On line classes for my medical degree…
44. Do you hate anyone right now?
Hate is a four letter word. I prefer despise…
45. Do you use the word "Hello" daily?
About 1500 times a day (I’m a senior greeter at Wal-Mart)
46,What color is your car?
Black
47, Do you like cats?
They're delicious
48. Are you thinking about someone right now?
Yes
49, Have you ever been to Six Flags?
Yep... and their stock is at an all-time low. They’ve been de-listed from the exchange, so it’s a good time to buy, but not a good time to ride that coaster…
50, How did you get your worst scar?
Stabbed in the arm…Dad and I went for the last steak at the same time. He won...
blue and white
2, Name one person who made you smile today:
Charles Barkley
3, What were you doing at 8 am this morning?
It’s only 7:57…I’ll tell you in a few…
4, What were you doing 45 minutes ago?
That’s quite personal, I think…
5, What is your favorite candy bar?
Anything made by Dove Chocolate
6. Have you ever been to a strip club?
Been? I’ve worked the pole, babe!
7, What is the last thing you said aloud?
”Sorry, Occifer, but I don’t drink and drive…I always wait until I’m stuck at a light.”
8, What is your favorite ice cream flavor?
chocolate
9, What was the last thing you had to drink?
Denny’s Coke- de-licious!
10. ..emails and filling out this stupid list (see question #3)
11, What was the last thing you ate?
Crow
12, Have you bought any new clothing items? recently?
Depends…
13, The last sporting event you watched? professional?
It IS Easter weekend. Tiger IS healthy. Is there ANYTHING else that matters this weekend but The Masters?
14, What is your favorite flavor of popcorn?
I didn’t know they came in flavors. I’ll say popcorn-flavored.
15, Who is the last person you sent a text message to?
I don’t text. I sent my daughter a smoke signal though…
16, Ever go camping?Are you kidding?
I’m a professional outdoorsman (another term for homeless)
17, Do you take vitamins daily?
Suppository only
18, Do you go to church every Sunday?
God and I have an agreement. I won’t bother HIM at work and He won’t bother me…My church is wherever I am at the time when He and I decide to talk things over.
19, Do you have a tan?
I have two fives. Will that help? Ooooh, a TAN….
20,Do you prefer Chinese food over pizza?
I prefer Chinese pizza
21, Do you drink your soda with a straw?
Yes. The restaurants hate it when I suck on the fountain
22, What did your last text message say? Again, I don’t text. What do I have to do to get that through your head? Text you or something???
23, What are you doing tomorrow?
You mean “who”, don’t you?
25, Look to your left, what do you see?
A very skittish squirrel. Obviously he’s not used to being in the shower with me
26, What color is your watch?
Silver
27, What do you think of when you hear Australia?
Cool accents, Greg Norman and toilets that flush in reverse
29, Do you go in at a fast food place or just hit the drive thru?
Hit the drive thru. I have several lawsuits pending for this very reason…
30. What is your favorite number?
13
31, Who's the last person you talked to on the phone?
9-1-1 operator (they never give their name, but I suspect they are somewhere in India)
32, Any plans today?
Let’s see…mop, download some tunage, rearrange my sock drawer, commit suicide…
33, How many states have you lived in?
Let me count…state of confusion, denial, euphoria, rapture…
34, Biggest annoyance right now?
I cannot understand how in an age where we are preaching GREEN, GREEN, GREEN, my grocery store (RALPH’S) discourages paper grocery bags (pushes the plastic) by hardly having any or if they have them, they have no handles. Don’ they know that it takes dozens and dozens of years for each plastic bag to disintegrate in a landfill? Jeez!!!!
35, Last song listened to?
”We Will Go On” by Daniel Rodriguez
36,Can you say the alphabet backwards?
sdrawkcab siht gnitirw m'I
37, Do you have a maid service clean your house?
Right. She comes right after my masseuse and pedicurist…
38, Favorite pair of shoes you wear all the time?
Snow shoes. Don’t ask…
39, Are you jealous of anyone?
Just those who are thin, handsome, wealthy, healthy and smart. Other than that, no. Oh wait…and the guy with the NEW box under the freeway; mine is falling apart.
40, Is anyone jealous of you?
yes- those who wish to be fat, ugly, poor and stupid. I’m sure there are some out there…
41, Do you love anyone?
but of course…”What a friend we have in Jesus…”
42, Do any of your friends have children?
Yes. Many of my friends were children once too.
43, What do you usually do during the day?
On line classes for my medical degree…
44. Do you hate anyone right now?
Hate is a four letter word. I prefer despise…
45. Do you use the word "Hello" daily?
About 1500 times a day (I’m a senior greeter at Wal-Mart)
46,What color is your car?
Black
47, Do you like cats?
They're delicious
48. Are you thinking about someone right now?
Yes
49, Have you ever been to Six Flags?
Yep... and their stock is at an all-time low. They’ve been de-listed from the exchange, so it’s a good time to buy, but not a good time to ride that coaster…
50, How did you get your worst scar?
Stabbed in the arm…Dad and I went for the last steak at the same time. He won...
Post-Oscar comments...
Having been a fan of the Academy Awards since I was a small child- memorizing the list of winners in all major catagories from 1927-1977, and culminating in actually working for A.M.P.A.S. and the production as Executive Director, I have a unique perspective (I think) of this year's award show. It was not good.You will hear and read about the great job Jackman did as host, and the musical numbers, etc. While Jackman is charming, and quite talented, they tried to make this a Busby Berkley musical instead of the Oscars. The day that no-talents like Zac Efron and Vanessa Hudgens get to dance on stage at the Oscars, is the beginning of the end for the glamour and glitz that surrounds this annual event. What I saw was Beyonce lip-synching, terribly under-rehearsed and ill-advised dance numbers (made me yearn for Rob Lowe and Cinderella), Ben Stiller stealing a Joaquin Phoenix routine that was presented the day before at the Independent Film Spirit Awards, and various film clips and montages that seemed to have been thrown together at the last minute. They even blew the In Memorium sequence with awful camera direction!Overall, the show and all the categories lacked any kind of suspense or originality, with one exception. I liked the way the major acting awards were presented- with five past winners speaking about the qualities of the nominees. That was brilliant. I think the biggest "job" of the night was Penn winning for "Milk". Even he thought, deep down, that Rourke deserved it for "The Wrestler" and he was right. It just shows you how Rourke will never get to that top again, and Penn, despite his wild past, is still the apple in the eye of the Oscar voter- especially with a Hollywood-friendly "gay" film. Say what you want about "equal rights", but to insult 70% of the nation with his "shame" comments continues to show just how out-of-touch Hollywood is. I happen to agree with the position that Penn holds, but to discount a national election where that sentiment is clearly in the minority, even here in CA where it lost 57-43%, shows which side of the political aisle is truly intolerant. Sean- who is an outstanding actor despite his vocal politics- should have resisted the urge to spout off again. Just like the winning outcomes, his act is also predictable.The one bright spot was the return of Sophia Loren. She alone seemed to represent Old Hollywood with all its sophistication and glamour. I long for the days of Wayne, Sinatra, Stewart, Hepburn, Peck, Grant, Davis and the rest. This is a new, and not necessarily improved, Hollywood.Amidst all the turmoil, imperfections and flubs, there sat Meryl Streep- 15 nominations and counting. before she finishes, she's looking at 25 nom's and possibly 10 wins. She's the Tiger Woods of the OSCAR's! Good for her! Like Bette Davis and Hepburn before her, she doesn't have the stunning beautiful looks of the flavor-of -the weeks have, but she has unending talent and a knack for picking the right scripts and roles. It was also great to see newcomers like Viola Davis, Richard Jenkins, Anthony Mackie and Michael Shannon (who I predict will be the next great character actor like M.Emmett Walsh or even J.T. Walsh) get their recognition as well. On a scale of 1-10, this year was a 3 at best. Even so, it's the OSCAR's- the show I've seen as many times as Wizard of Oz, GWTW and the Super Bowls. And yes, I will attempt to commit this year's winner's to memory too.
A-Roid and other thoughts on PED's...
Today, Yankee slugger Alex Rodriguez came out and admitted in an interview with Peter Gammons that he did use performance enhancing drugs (steroids, growth hormone) from 2001-2003.and...?The issue I have with this interview is not that he did the steriods, but that he is on record as LYING about it, including a nationally televised interview with Katie Couric.There was a time in America when lying was one of the worst things you could be caught doing and have it affect your career. Your word meant nothing, your opinions meant nothing. Your point of view was meaningless. Not anymore, though. Maybe since it was ok for the sitting President to lie to America by stating "I am not a crook!". Maybe it started after the sitting President told the world that he didn't inhale, didn't have sex with woman, etc, etc.As a huge sports fan, specifically baseball, I've learned how to "handle" and manage this steroid controversy, and I would encourage all of you to do the same. 1) I will never pay for tickets to attend a game. I will go if they are free, but will not purchase anything at the park. 2) I no longer purchase any sports memorabilia or logo'd clothing. I love my Mets, but do not own a jersey, a hat or anything with the logo.3) I would not allow my child to play Little League on any team named after an actual team. Names like "Dragons", Mighty Oaks", Raiders, etc. are just as effective.4) I go out of my way to avoid purchasing any product or service ever shucked and hawked by these liars and cheaters. Things like the phone company and such you can't avoid...What is also troubling is that these guys took this test voluntarily, under the agreement that they will remain anonymous in perpetuity. Someone kept the information and leaked it. I would conduct a full scale investigation to find out how it was leaked and fire anyone connected to the leak.A-Roid claimed he used it when he felt an incredible pressure for having to perform. yes, pressure from a $250 million dollar contract that he accepted.By the way, when will the first team stand up and sue their player who tests positive, for false representation? Couldn't they collect a portion or all of their paid out salary? I would think so. Anyway, I'm through with supporting these clowns, and none of them should be voted into a Hall of Fame BEFORE Pete Rose gets in.
Sully!
I just finished watching what I thought was a very emotional interview with Capt. Sullenberger, the pilot of the Airway Jet that crashed into the Hudson, 1/15/09. There's no wonder why he took almost a month before his first interview, as he is somehow wracked with "survivor's guilt" (even though there were no casualties. In that time, however, he got all of his information straight, knowing exactly what he did every second of the way, and his responses were well-rehearsed. This just reinforced in us how reliable and professional he is, keeping his head when all around him they are losing theirs. He reinforced in me what a hero is, and I'm a better person to have seen that interview and learn from him.Sadly, though, he also reminded me of another hero, who also suffered severe guilt after his heroic act. That person was the Secret Service agent who jumped on the back of Kennedy's limo in Dallas and stopped Jackie from falling out. Even though he had no chance to save JFK, he was riddled with guilt over that incident (In The Line of Fire character played by Clint Eastwood was loosely based on him), to the point that he became an alcoholic and died a young, tragic death. Sully seemed to have the same stare and speak similarly to that heroic figure. I pray he gets better soon, and retires to stay with hsi young family. As an aside, it also seemed that the one attendant who had cut her leg, seemed to have experienced a completely different episode. I got the distinct impression the rest of the crew is tired of her "drama queen" act in her effort to separate herself from the rest. I guarabtee two things- that attendant will be the first to cash in by writing a book of the incident, a book which will be critical of Sully and the co-pilot as well as the airline. I also think she's going to sue the airlines and will never return to work. She sees dollar signs.155 went into the drink; 155 emerged. The reunion with the passengers and their families was one of the most touching scenes I've ever witnessed on television. Sully summed it up best when he said that he thought people are attached to this incident because we are in search of some good news. maybe he's right, but I think even in a glowing economy and a society where dogs played with cats and the Mets win the World Series, following a J-E-T-S, Jets, Jets, Jets Super Bowl victory, this incident would have been one for the ages. Thanks, Sully. I'm naming my next dog after you!
The Stimulus Package and other Lies...
If you watch and decipher the (political) news as much as I do (and , apparently David Andersen does as well!) you should be somewhat troubled by this "stimulus package". Those who are not are Liberal ideologues who believe their chosen leaders can do no wrong, which is pure head-in-the-sand thinking and I have no time for that or you. Wake up, people! You can be supportive of you party and your chosen leaders, but it sickens me when you walk in lock step to everything they do and say without doing any of your own research. Do I believe and support everything the Conservatives put forth? Hell, no. I didn't even support our choice for President! As I have said on many past occasions, I am more than willing to support our new, very charismatic President and se what happens, however if his leadership on the stimulus package is any indication, it will be a VERY short Honeymoon. First of all, this is NOT a stimulus package- it is a pork bill of unGodly proportions! out of $900B, less than half is actually expected to "stimulate" job growth and opportunity. Half of THAT won't go into effect for years to come. The stuff that DOES take immediate effect will be: prison repair and reform, condom distribution in HS, and various social programs that they already admit will have NO direct effect on the economy- it will simply provide more free stuff to their party members, like illegal aliens, lower income families, etc. I'm all for helping them as well, but NOT IN THIS PACKAGE!A true leader would have said "Enough. This is serious business, not partisan politics as usual. Take all of this crap out and reduce it to a REAL stimulus package and get these people back to work!" Somehow, I can easily picture FDR, Truman and Reagan saying those exact words...However, the curtain is pulled back and it is revealed- the statistic that said Obama WAS the most Liberal Senator in office is, in fact, true. He not only supports this "pork-laden future tax burden for years to come", but he had the nerve to "call out" those who refuse to support it, claiming they obviously do not want to help the Unemployed Americans. If anyone can take the leap and explain to me how distributing condoms in High School and pledging millions upon millions of dollars to such a program will directly put the construction worker to work, and in a way that makes absolute sense, I will switch parties immediately and register Democrat today!There is a reason why this "package" concerns me so and why it hits home so closely and very few really know this reason, but suffice it to say- it does. There are thousands upon thousands more unemployed than what is reported; some have NOT chosen to collect Unemployment, but they are unemployed just the same. Some are so terribly underemployed that they would MAKE more on UI, but choose not to collect and rather earn something. They make so little and have families to take care of. Now, the "partyof the People" have their perfect opportunity to turn our capitalist society into one of Socialism- this has been their dirty dream for decades.History will reflect that this package went a long way in making that dream a reality.
Random thoughts...
Have you seen the new Jack-In-The -Box commercial where Jack is on Air Force One? He's apparently meeting with the President about something to do with Jack's new sandwich. What's interesting, and you have to look closely, is that the Presidential seal, clearly in view, says "Resident of the United States". Jack even refers to the disembodied voice as "Mr. Resident". Apparently, they didn't get approval for the use or portrayal of the Presidential Seal...imagine "Resident Bartlett" on Est Wing?...saw "Jaws" again- those who have read previous notes know my "attachment" to sharks- the perfect killing machine. If I were Chief Brody, I'd feel horrible. HE lost his grip on Quint, allowing Quint to slide right into the mouth of Bruce, only to be chomped in half. Brody, for a Chief of Police, I'm ashamed of you!...I'd like to see Mickey Rourke beat out Sean Penn for the Best Actor Oscar. In Hollywood, these things are certain if you want to win an Oscar- make a Holocaust movie, portray someone with a disability, or portray a hero of the Left (like Milk). It's a joke. Sure, Penn is a great actor, but Rourke came out of NOWHERE, physically worked his but off and portrays a very sad figure in a very moving movie. I can hope...my other predictions/wishes to come in future notes...
25 Random things...
1. I hate to shave my face, but I don't mind waxing my legs
2. I don't smoke, drink or do drugs and abhor those who do (ironically, I don't mind if you sell it, though).
3. I'm a big sports freak and ESPN is on my TV almost 24/7
4. I believe I was born thirty years too late.
5. I cry when I hear or sing the following: The National Anthem, Nessun Dorma, Butterfly Kisses, The Leader of the Band, and any song that has to do with a Daddy/Daughter relationship.
6. My weight fluctuates 5-75 pounds, depending on my mood.
7. I usually consider myself the smartest person in the room, but then again, I hang out in a lot of daycare centers.
8. On my right arm, I have tattoos reflecting personal heroes; on my right arm are tattoos reflecting my love for my family. On my back, I have a life-sized tattoo of Elvis (only taller).
9. I speak five languages- English and four dialects from interplanetary systems that we have yet to discover.
10. I love to work out to the point of sweating profusely and almost passing out, and I do it at least once a year whether I need to or not.
11. I've made more bad decisions in one life that any person deserves.
12. I live by the edict "A Good Deed Never Goes Unpunished". Sadly, it has never failed me...
13. I want to dye my hair, but I would like to dye it gray. I just can't find any...
14. Despite what my fellows Facebookers might believe, I don't remember too much about High School and didn't enjoy it too much. I worked full time before school and immediately after.
15. I lost my virginity in college, in a cemetary, at midnight after a screening of The Rocky Horror Picture Show. Yes, this time I did have a partner.
16. I miss my Mom and Dad everyday.
17. I have dreams of being a successful character actor much like Dennis Franz or Brian Dennehy. I'm working on this dream now by assuming their identities and ordering stuff on line.
18. I am classically conservative, but continue to fight for the underdog in almost every situation.
19. I live for my New York Mets.
20. I despise racism and prejudice of any kind.
21. I write much better than I speak; I sing better than I dance.
22. I am in the middle of three screenplays and writing two biographical stage plays (musicals).
23. As a Christian, I am torn between believing the stories of the Bible and the idea of God, and the proven facts of science, evolution, Big Bang, etc. I think I believe in a God, but lean towards the science answers. I do believe Jesus existed though, and have taken him as my Savior. I just don't know about this heaven and Hell thing...
24. I love my daughter, Mary, more than life itself and would kill AND die for her without a seconds thought. Thankfully, I believe she loves her old man too!
25. I often cover up deep fear and pain with comedy; typical "Tears of a Clown" syndrome.
2. I don't smoke, drink or do drugs and abhor those who do (ironically, I don't mind if you sell it, though).
3. I'm a big sports freak and ESPN is on my TV almost 24/7
4. I believe I was born thirty years too late.
5. I cry when I hear or sing the following: The National Anthem, Nessun Dorma, Butterfly Kisses, The Leader of the Band, and any song that has to do with a Daddy/Daughter relationship.
6. My weight fluctuates 5-75 pounds, depending on my mood.
7. I usually consider myself the smartest person in the room, but then again, I hang out in a lot of daycare centers.
8. On my right arm, I have tattoos reflecting personal heroes; on my right arm are tattoos reflecting my love for my family. On my back, I have a life-sized tattoo of Elvis (only taller).
9. I speak five languages- English and four dialects from interplanetary systems that we have yet to discover.
10. I love to work out to the point of sweating profusely and almost passing out, and I do it at least once a year whether I need to or not.
11. I've made more bad decisions in one life that any person deserves.
12. I live by the edict "A Good Deed Never Goes Unpunished". Sadly, it has never failed me...
13. I want to dye my hair, but I would like to dye it gray. I just can't find any...
14. Despite what my fellows Facebookers might believe, I don't remember too much about High School and didn't enjoy it too much. I worked full time before school and immediately after.
15. I lost my virginity in college, in a cemetary, at midnight after a screening of The Rocky Horror Picture Show. Yes, this time I did have a partner.
16. I miss my Mom and Dad everyday.
17. I have dreams of being a successful character actor much like Dennis Franz or Brian Dennehy. I'm working on this dream now by assuming their identities and ordering stuff on line.
18. I am classically conservative, but continue to fight for the underdog in almost every situation.
19. I live for my New York Mets.
20. I despise racism and prejudice of any kind.
21. I write much better than I speak; I sing better than I dance.
22. I am in the middle of three screenplays and writing two biographical stage plays (musicals).
23. As a Christian, I am torn between believing the stories of the Bible and the idea of God, and the proven facts of science, evolution, Big Bang, etc. I think I believe in a God, but lean towards the science answers. I do believe Jesus existed though, and have taken him as my Savior. I just don't know about this heaven and Hell thing...
24. I love my daughter, Mary, more than life itself and would kill AND die for her without a seconds thought. Thankfully, I believe she loves her old man too!
25. I often cover up deep fear and pain with comedy; typical "Tears of a Clown" syndrome.
Random thoughts...
Just saw "Urban Cowboy" for the umpteenth time, but first in several years. I don't understand a few things- tell me again why Debra Winger was famous?...that Travolta sure could start a dance craze though. I went thru my UC days in 1980 and then again in the mid-90's...the best part about that whole scene was the dancing-that was fun- the worst part were the mullets...this soundtrack was awesome, and still holds up today- lots of classic songs...I'd bet if Travolta made a movie were he danced "the worm" on the dancefloor, we'd all be slithering on dancefloors by the next weekend...I saw an ADT commercial the other day, where the daughter is left home alone as the family goes out. She sets the alarm and then a burglar is seen and heard kicking in a back door. Terrified, she screams; just then, the phone rings-ADT is calling about a break-in alarm. What struck me funny was, when she answered, she said "Hello?" You have a burglar kicking in your backdoor and you answer the phone "hello" instead of "HELP ME-CALL THE POLICE!"??...I realize that it is instinct, though. The best example of this was the video of the child molester being escorted through the airport by the F.B.I., when the victim's father comes out of the shadows to shoot the suspect in the head. In the ensuing scuffle, the agents fight the shooter, knocking off a phone from the receiver of a payphone. In all of this commotion- fighting a guy with a gun, holding on to a dead suspect with a hole in his head, and keeping the public at a safe distance in a crowded airport, this agent took the time to reach over and put the phone back on the payphone receiver. It is amazing video of someone reacting instinctually without even knowing it...I enjoy finding "flaws" like that in commercials or movies...ever see a Western where some cowboys are out "on the range" for weeks, say, in a cattle drive or something? They hit town and the first thing they do is hit the saloon and get themselves some "female company". The cowboys go up to the second floor with their women and start kissing and stripping, ready to get down to business. You know what I'm thinking the whole time? How about a nice hot shower? Perhaps even brushing your teeth. I mean, you were only out on the dusty trails for the last two weeks. I guess it's just me...can you believe Steve Perry of Journey is 60 years old today? Damn- still the hardest singer to emulate and the hardest songs to do- incredible range. "Heart" (Nancy and Ann Wilson) are also in that group. That's why I think that chick on Idol who did "Barracuda" in the audition will make at least Top-24. Never know how these people will do in Hollywood, and often your chances are blown because of someone your stuck singing with. Talent-wise, she can win it all. JMHO...
These things have always bothered me...
...where is the hospital that "House" practices? Doesn't he use narcotics everyday?...I haven't seen an episode YET where they don't "think" they have the solution, and then start treatment on the patient, when the patient ends up in CARDIAC ARREST...is it me or is Michelle Obama not very attractive? Sorry but to me, she looks like Chewbaca, especially towering over him like she does. I'm sure she's quite bright and nice though, but I always had a crush on Laura Bush myself...so far this football post-season, I haven't picked one game correctly (I pick with my heart, not my head). I'm still hoping the Cardinals pull it out...I only liked the Bradshaw-led Steelers of the 70's, much like I liked the Willie Stargell Pirate teams. Hate both teams now...I have this turntable that hooks into my computer and transfers my vinyl into itunes, which I later burn into cd's. It's cool, but I have 1000's of albums so it'll take forever...speaking of overseas, I am looking for year-long contractual employment in and around the war zone too. I'm to old to fight with them, but maybe I can make a couple of hundred thousand tax-free supporting them...I'm excited about the new show "Lie To Me", especially given my interviewing career and such. I've always studied body language and "tells", plus Tim Roth is a great actor...Jets got themselves a new coach- Rex Ryan. They need to get to get tougher, they need a few receivers and I do hope Brett comes back one more time. Then next year, they can draft one of the many QB's coming out- Colt as a Jet?...Giants just need to get-and stay healthy. A healthy Giants team would blow BOTH Super Bowl teams away. I'm sure the same goes for New England, too..."JAWS" is one movie that I will watch on cable every time it is on, but I'll never watch it on regular TV. In fact, other than Idol, I don't watch ANY regular television. I hate commercials...speaking of commercials....
On one hand...
...I'm looking forward to the inauguration of our new President. No, I didn't vote for him and I have sincere doubts he will accomplish anything close to what he promised, even with the majority behind him, but I'm all for giving him a shot. He "seems" like a nice enough guy (his wife is another story altogether!), but I am getting sick of all the "others" who have decided to hitch their wagons to his star. You know who I'm talking about- Oprah (like SHE needs more face time!), Sean Puff the Magic Dragon Combs, Cheryl "Curb Your Enthusiasm, PUH-LEEZE" Hines, Ludacris, Will.i.am, and even Arianna Huffington. She used to be an right-wing extremist, finds out her husband is gay after 20 years of marriage, and goes social-programming overboard with her ultra-liberal stances and anti-American rhetoric. Like every party, I guess- there will be some who attend who seem to ruin a good time for everyone else...speaking of our new President, I just cannot get over the irony that first there was a 9/11, and in a few short years, we have a "Barack Hussein Obama" as President...this is monumental to me, personally. This will be the first President that was BORN after I was! First, it was getting used to centerfolds having birthdays after I graduated High School and College, now it's a youngin' for Commander In Chief!...I always enjoyed Reagan's speeches and State of the Union addresses- looked forward to the homespun homilys of the "good ole days", but I'm REALLY excited about President Obama's speechifying! Electric! Heck-- I would vote for Jesse Jackson just to hear his song-like speeches...Even if this President fails, I will not blame him. You must always blame Congress, as they are the true power in our government...get used to legalized abortions without parental consent for 14 yr. olds and younger, freedoms to disrupt churches and freedoms to attack anyone or any organization that may not agree with the "alternative lifestyle" crowds, handcuffing our law enforcement and letting obviously guilty bad folk roam free, and basically our country being overtaken by what is known as "San Francisco Values"- a truly secular society. God help us all...
Huh?
Did anyone ever tell you to "STOP-tie your shoelaces!"? Someone said that to me today and I thought for a second- isn't that comment just encouraging mediocrity? Why only "tie" our shoelaces? Shouldn't we teach our kids to "beat our shoelaces"? I know winning isn't everything, and Lord knows, Donovan McNabb doesn't know what happens in the event of a tie, but really- shouldn't we encourage each other to go out and do our best against our shoelaces? From now on, I going to beat the living eyelets off of MY shoelaces! Just remember though- you may not be able to get in without a tie...
Monday, March 2, 2009

There are a few things of late that are just getting old, and as a result, getting on my nerves. In no particular order, they are:
1) Reality "stars"- if making a total fool of yourself on national television for a thousand a week makes you a "star", I'll pass...
2) Miley Cyrus, Ashley Tisdale, The O.C., etc.- see #1
3) People on reality shows using names like MILF, TWISTER, SIX PACK, CHARDONNAY, FIESTY, etc.
4) The news using the suffix "gate" whenever a new scandal erupts. This started back in 1972 with "Watergate", which in fact, was the name of the hotel burglarized by Nixon's crew. Since then, it's been Travelgate, Nannygate, Steroidgate. I've always wondered what they would call it if a scandal broke in Congress where a Senator was caught receiving an electronic wrought-iron driveway gate in exchange for political favors.
5) Cell phones or telephones that ring in movies and television shows that sound exactly like yours
6) That "ad" in the beginning of a feature film in the theatre that implores the audience to "be quiet". I love the sentiment, but they use that crying baby sound, and I always fall for it- my blood pressure goes up a hundred points!
7) In a world of DVD's and Blu Ray, having dozens of VHS tapes of some damn good movies!
8) Octomom- can't we just shoot her and move on?
9) Bailing out banks and insurance companies and larges businesses "for the good of the nation", then finding out they took our money, they don't lend out any, and instead use it to through million dollar parties. They should all go under and the CEO's should go to jail.
10) Having a law that makes it illegal to use a cell phone while operating a motor vehicle (supposed to use a bluetooth) and then seeing these a-holes think they can skirt the law by holding a cell and using speakerphone. You know how you can tell which people are still using cell phones while driving? They are the ones driving ten miles slower than everyone else, they have a line of traffic behind them that it looks like a funeral procession, and they have "Obama/Biden" stickers on their bumpers.
Thursday, February 26, 2009

Today, a great footbal player retired. Say what you want about Brett Favre, he was a GREAT football player and a is a great man. A man's man.This phrase "a man's man" got me thinking about who are some other people I would consider being a "man's man". Some are fairly obvious why; others, it's just a matter of my opinion. If you want to add some more to the list, feel free to do so in the comment section. Except for one, all those listed are living, and I did that on purpose. Otherwise, Elvis and The Rat Pack fellas would be on it.My list of "He's a man's man", in no particular order (and Favre is already on it..)
1) Ah-nold: despite what you may think about his politics, anyone who creates the phrase "girly man" is a man's man. He revolutionized bodybuilding as a sport, and violent movies with minimum dialogue and plot as an art form.
2) Tom Selleck- any man who can go to bed clean shaven and wake up with the best moustache in history, has to be a "man's man"
3) Sam Elliott- see #2, and add the baritone voice
4) Neil Armstrong- will forever be the First Man on the Moon, and did it with class and simplicity. He never fully capitalized on this title, as he felt it wasn't something to take for granted or to exploit for personal gain.
5) Meat Loaf- Hell, anyone who calls himself "Meat Loaf" and made millions and millions of dollars while being over 450 lbs. in his prime, has to make the list. Not many can make that claim...
6) Clint Eastwood- As "Dirty Harry", he allowed us all to fantasize about taking care of the bad guys when the law wouldn't (Charles Bronson is here too, but he's gone). His westerns kept the memory of the Ultimate "man's man", John Wayne, alive. Plus, he's a damn good actor and director.
7) My Uncle Jerry- now deceased, he was a man's man in every sense of the word. He was a trucker, fixed engines, and died while saving 12 young students on a runaway school bus. Need I say more?
8) Norman Schwartzkopf/ American G.I.- all encompassing for obvious reasons
9) Shaq O'Neal- I knew Shaq well when he was a Laker. I've seen him in the shower several times; trust me, he's a man's man...more importantly, though, he is extremely charitable and when he's around children, it is a sight to behold.
10) Dick Butkus- if "Man's Man" had a logo, it would be an outline of the Butkus head, flat top and all. This guy never lifted weights- he simply pushed cars filled with six or seven of his buddies around the block- with the emergency brakes on. I played golf with Dick about 20 years ago and couldn't believe the size of his hands. This guy still strikes fear in the hearts of today's football players. Close to 70 now, he could still kick ass!
Those not on the list, but would be if I wanted to include those who have passed: Ronald Reagan, Wilt Chamberlain, Jackie Robinson, Jack Armstrong, Audie Murphy, Chuck Yeager, Elvis Presley, Charlton Heston.
Monday, February 23, 2009
So THAT'S How He Did It!!!
I made an interesting "hook up" on Facebook recently. Someone from the old neighborhood back on Staten Island, where I grew up in the 60's and 70's, contacted me and wanted to re-connect.
What I remember most about this friend (I'll call him "Gary") was that his Dad was a "sanitary engineer", or as we called them, a garbage man. More importantly, he was OUR garbage man, and his route consisted of 20-30 blocks surrounding our neighborhood.
Now, this family did not come from money. In fact, all of us were middle class, and this family was slightly less. We could tell this by the fact that Gary never had new clothes or new toys, they didn't have anywhere close to a new car, and never took a vacation-ever! In any event, though, his Dad worked hard.
I now learn that the family is worth millions of dollars and own several homes across the United States. Gary, who struggled in school and never attended college, is heading up a sports memorabilia company, presumably started by he and his Dad. How did this happen? Did they win the lottery? Were they recipients of a large cash settlement in a lawsuit? How did they go from one end of the social spectrum all the way, and beyond, the other end?
Well, after doing some investigation, and asking the right questions of the right people, I found out.
You see, while Dad was patrolling the streets tossing people's garbage into the huge compacting truck, he was also taking mental note of the kids on his route. He noted which homes had sons as opposed to daughters, and he bided his time. Whenever a boy in the neighborhood grew up and went off to college, Gary's Dad would leave a box on that family's front porch, with a short note saying "FOR OLD BASEBALL CARDS ONLY".
You have to remember, back in the 60's and 70's, us kids would save our allowances and birthday money and buy packs of baseball cards looking for that one superstar we loved- Tom Seaver, Willie Mays, Johnny Bench. We would take a shoebox and fill it to the point of overflow with these cards- won and lost through flipping or trading. We would also attach some cards (the duplicates or the stars of teams we hated) to the spokes of our Schwinns to give us that "cool" engine-revving sound, at least in our over-active imaginations. I would sometimes attach three or four cards at one time- using my mother's wooden clothespins. Eventually, we would grow up and the lucky ones moved away to college or work. These shoeboxes were carefully stored on the upper shelves of our closets, with all of the cards sorted and rubberbanded by teams. I went a couple of steps further- arranging the players in order of their batting averages, and the teams in order of their finish that year- but that's just me.
When our mother's noted this box on the stoop with the note "FOR OLD BASEBALL CARDS ONLY", the mothers knew exactly where these boxes were stored (there was no hiding baseball cards, Playboys or bad report cards from Moms. They have antennaes for those things, didn't you know?). Some mothers asked Gary's Dad why he wanted the cards, and word was that he told them that he knew some younger, poorer kids in the neighborhood and wanted to "pass them on" to them, regardless the condition the cards were in. Everyone thought that was a very thoughtful and considerate gesture and were just too happy to accommodate him on this quest. So, in HIS box, OUR box went.
Needless to say, Gary's Dad eventually had hundreds of thousands of baseball cards from the 60's and 70's. Some kids had fathers and grandfathers who passed THEIR cards down to the son, and these cards were stored in these boxes as well. Cards from the 30', 40's and 50's- Mickey Mantle, Willie Mays rookie card, Bob Feller, Lefty Grove. Some cards still smelled like the pink cardboard-stiff bubblegum each pack came with; some cards still had the gum powder on the face. These cards soon became part of the collectable world, increasing the worth of the cards considerably. My Seaver rookie card was worth $25 when he was inducted into the Hall of Fame.
Gary and his dad financed a small storefront, borrowing money using a few cards as collateral, and soon thereafter, major collectors like Bruce McNall, Donald Trump and later, Charlie Sheen and a few rock stars battled over buying some of the rarer cards. Collectors came from all over the United States; one to purchase the entire 1979 World Champion Pittsburgh Pirate collection, another to buy a Wayne Garrett or a Nate Colbert. While they sold cards, they also bought other's collections, proving the old adage that "one man's trash in another man's treasure."
So, in the future, when standing around a cocktail party discussing the economy, the latest slide on Wall Street or the recent bank bail-outs, you will reflect on a simpler time back in your youth when your biggest worry for that day was not losing all of your left handed powerhitters in the upcoming flipping challenge in the corner of the schoolyard. Of course, you'll announce to everyone that you'd "be a millionaire today if you had kept the baseball cards" from your childhood.
Suddenly, you stop and wonder to yourself "What DID ever happened to those cards? I'm sure Mom will know; I'll ask her tomorrow."
No need. Now you know...
PS- I also heard this rumor, not yet confirmed. It's been said that the principal of P.S. 22, Mr. Finkenseiper, went in as partners on this business venture. Apparently he also had a very large collection of baseball cards- confiscated from us during those flipping contests in the corner of the schoolyard.
Bastards...
What I remember most about this friend (I'll call him "Gary") was that his Dad was a "sanitary engineer", or as we called them, a garbage man. More importantly, he was OUR garbage man, and his route consisted of 20-30 blocks surrounding our neighborhood.
Now, this family did not come from money. In fact, all of us were middle class, and this family was slightly less. We could tell this by the fact that Gary never had new clothes or new toys, they didn't have anywhere close to a new car, and never took a vacation-ever! In any event, though, his Dad worked hard.
I now learn that the family is worth millions of dollars and own several homes across the United States. Gary, who struggled in school and never attended college, is heading up a sports memorabilia company, presumably started by he and his Dad. How did this happen? Did they win the lottery? Were they recipients of a large cash settlement in a lawsuit? How did they go from one end of the social spectrum all the way, and beyond, the other end?
Well, after doing some investigation, and asking the right questions of the right people, I found out.
You see, while Dad was patrolling the streets tossing people's garbage into the huge compacting truck, he was also taking mental note of the kids on his route. He noted which homes had sons as opposed to daughters, and he bided his time. Whenever a boy in the neighborhood grew up and went off to college, Gary's Dad would leave a box on that family's front porch, with a short note saying "FOR OLD BASEBALL CARDS ONLY".
You have to remember, back in the 60's and 70's, us kids would save our allowances and birthday money and buy packs of baseball cards looking for that one superstar we loved- Tom Seaver, Willie Mays, Johnny Bench. We would take a shoebox and fill it to the point of overflow with these cards- won and lost through flipping or trading. We would also attach some cards (the duplicates or the stars of teams we hated) to the spokes of our Schwinns to give us that "cool" engine-revving sound, at least in our over-active imaginations. I would sometimes attach three or four cards at one time- using my mother's wooden clothespins. Eventually, we would grow up and the lucky ones moved away to college or work. These shoeboxes were carefully stored on the upper shelves of our closets, with all of the cards sorted and rubberbanded by teams. I went a couple of steps further- arranging the players in order of their batting averages, and the teams in order of their finish that year- but that's just me.
When our mother's noted this box on the stoop with the note "FOR OLD BASEBALL CARDS ONLY", the mothers knew exactly where these boxes were stored (there was no hiding baseball cards, Playboys or bad report cards from Moms. They have antennaes for those things, didn't you know?). Some mothers asked Gary's Dad why he wanted the cards, and word was that he told them that he knew some younger, poorer kids in the neighborhood and wanted to "pass them on" to them, regardless the condition the cards were in. Everyone thought that was a very thoughtful and considerate gesture and were just too happy to accommodate him on this quest. So, in HIS box, OUR box went.
Needless to say, Gary's Dad eventually had hundreds of thousands of baseball cards from the 60's and 70's. Some kids had fathers and grandfathers who passed THEIR cards down to the son, and these cards were stored in these boxes as well. Cards from the 30', 40's and 50's- Mickey Mantle, Willie Mays rookie card, Bob Feller, Lefty Grove. Some cards still smelled like the pink cardboard-stiff bubblegum each pack came with; some cards still had the gum powder on the face. These cards soon became part of the collectable world, increasing the worth of the cards considerably. My Seaver rookie card was worth $25 when he was inducted into the Hall of Fame.
Gary and his dad financed a small storefront, borrowing money using a few cards as collateral, and soon thereafter, major collectors like Bruce McNall, Donald Trump and later, Charlie Sheen and a few rock stars battled over buying some of the rarer cards. Collectors came from all over the United States; one to purchase the entire 1979 World Champion Pittsburgh Pirate collection, another to buy a Wayne Garrett or a Nate Colbert. While they sold cards, they also bought other's collections, proving the old adage that "one man's trash in another man's treasure."
So, in the future, when standing around a cocktail party discussing the economy, the latest slide on Wall Street or the recent bank bail-outs, you will reflect on a simpler time back in your youth when your biggest worry for that day was not losing all of your left handed powerhitters in the upcoming flipping challenge in the corner of the schoolyard. Of course, you'll announce to everyone that you'd "be a millionaire today if you had kept the baseball cards" from your childhood.
Suddenly, you stop and wonder to yourself "What DID ever happened to those cards? I'm sure Mom will know; I'll ask her tomorrow."
No need. Now you know...
PS- I also heard this rumor, not yet confirmed. It's been said that the principal of P.S. 22, Mr. Finkenseiper, went in as partners on this business venture. Apparently he also had a very large collection of baseball cards- confiscated from us during those flipping contests in the corner of the schoolyard.
Bastards...

Check out Helen Mirren in "The Queen". Fascinating movie, fantastic performance!
It made me think of some of my all-time favorite performances in movies:
Clint- "Gran Torino" may well be his "Gran" dest of them all...
Denzel- "Crimson Tide" or "Man on Fire"- take your pick!
Michael Clarke Duncan- "The Green Mile"- may be the best Supporting Actor role ever
The Duke- I'll take him in "Big Jake", "Rio Bravo", or "The Shootist" thankyouverymuch...
Russell Crowe- "Gladiator"
Brad Pitt- should have won for "Seven"
Spencer Tracy- "Inherit the Wind", among many others...
Morgan Freeman- everything he does deserves an award!
Hugh Grant- "Love Actually" will be an all-time classic like "It's a Wonderful Life"
Philip Seymour Hoffman- starting with "Twister" and culminating with "The Savages", this guy hits it out of the park every turn at bat!
Now, I love my classic movies as well, but these are what comes to mind as I write. I love my women actors too (see Helen Mirren above), and perhaps I'll note those favorites later.
Please chime in, though. I want to read about YOUR favorites as well!
Random Thoughts- A new President, among other things...
...I can't help but be stunned at the treatment the outgoing President Bush and VP Cheney have been and are receiving. All one has to do is remember seven and a half years ago, how we rallied around his leadership, his comfort and his resolve, and came together as a nation...
While I am one hundred thousand percent behind the idea of electing an African American as President, and perhaps very soon, a woman as President, my problem is that Barack Obama was NOT the most deserving of this honor. When Jackie Robinson broke the color barrier in baseball, those involved searched for YEARS for just the right player- a person who not only had baseball talent, but had the wherewithall to stand up to the abuse from fans as well as players and teammates. They made the right choice. While Obama has the personality to be a "superstar" in politics, he hardly has the resume and experience...
Take this to the bank- Harry Reid will be forced out of his leadership due to scandal after scandal. He's as dirty as they come...Maybe it's because I live in Hollywood and I'm more exposed to it than most of y'all, but I am sick of the Hollywood "elite", "A-list" or whatever you want to call them. These phonies (Demi, Ashton, Cameron Diaz, Courtney and David, Will.i.am, and a host of others) did a commercial "pledging" how they will help "America change, and be part of the change" that Obama promised. Keep in mind, these phonies are the ones captured on camera smoking illegal substances, drinking and driving, bouncing from bed to bed and overall just being A-holes, not A-listers. Not to mention none of them have made a movie in 10 years that was worth the price of admission to see. Why not just "pledge" to yourself to make a decent movie, work on your craft, keep your clothes on and your legs together and shut your pie hole? Yeah, I said it...
Joe Biden, VP. Remember, in 1988 he was shamed from continuing his campaign because of plagerizing speeches, then denying it for so long, only to come clean later. Now THERE'S a Vice President of integrity we can all get behind...
Personally, I hope Barack does well- he is charming and quite easy to like. He may not even be as liberal as I fear he is. He is in great shape, has fantastic kids, is a great role model as a Dad, and an unequalled orator. He just has to surround himself with the political dregs of society as they attempt to cash in on his presidency, and this makes me sad...
While I am one hundred thousand percent behind the idea of electing an African American as President, and perhaps very soon, a woman as President, my problem is that Barack Obama was NOT the most deserving of this honor. When Jackie Robinson broke the color barrier in baseball, those involved searched for YEARS for just the right player- a person who not only had baseball talent, but had the wherewithall to stand up to the abuse from fans as well as players and teammates. They made the right choice. While Obama has the personality to be a "superstar" in politics, he hardly has the resume and experience...
Take this to the bank- Harry Reid will be forced out of his leadership due to scandal after scandal. He's as dirty as they come...Maybe it's because I live in Hollywood and I'm more exposed to it than most of y'all, but I am sick of the Hollywood "elite", "A-list" or whatever you want to call them. These phonies (Demi, Ashton, Cameron Diaz, Courtney and David, Will.i.am, and a host of others) did a commercial "pledging" how they will help "America change, and be part of the change" that Obama promised. Keep in mind, these phonies are the ones captured on camera smoking illegal substances, drinking and driving, bouncing from bed to bed and overall just being A-holes, not A-listers. Not to mention none of them have made a movie in 10 years that was worth the price of admission to see. Why not just "pledge" to yourself to make a decent movie, work on your craft, keep your clothes on and your legs together and shut your pie hole? Yeah, I said it...
Joe Biden, VP. Remember, in 1988 he was shamed from continuing his campaign because of plagerizing speeches, then denying it for so long, only to come clean later. Now THERE'S a Vice President of integrity we can all get behind...
Personally, I hope Barack does well- he is charming and quite easy to like. He may not even be as liberal as I fear he is. He is in great shape, has fantastic kids, is a great role model as a Dad, and an unequalled orator. He just has to surround himself with the political dregs of society as they attempt to cash in on his presidency, and this makes me sad...
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